One of the reasons I love New York is for the diversity. Now don't get me wrong--I'm not delusional and/or ignorant. I know I live in a White suburb of New York City by living in Park Slope, but even my White suburb of the City is more diverse than a White suburb of say Washington, DC or Raleigh, NC. I know this because I grew up in those suburbs, and you'd never see the diversity of races and ethnicities there that I see here. I love that my kids are growing up thinking that exposure to all sorts of people is the norm. Honestly, this is a huge reason why we continue to stay here even when a nice little house in Carborro, the college town outside of Chapel Hill, continues to haunt my dreams, pregnant with possibility.Alexandra is in her princess stage. I guess it was inevitable; everyone told me that no matter how much you try to keep her from the Disney mania that the princess phase sneaks up on you and swallows your daughter whole around this age (she will be four in June). They were right. We have never watched a Disney movie, have NO Disney paraphenalia in our home, nor do we speak of princesses, but she is obsessed with all things pink, wearing dresses 24/7, and wearing a veil (which is more bride than princess, but whatever....). It's pretty sick.
She has a few criteria that define princess-hood. One: you must have a dress that touches the ground (which she has been endlessly begging me to buy her) and Two: you must be wearing some sort of head jewelry or scarf. So, naturally, as we walked home from daycare the other day when she saw a group of Muslim women wearing full burka (albeit, faces showing, but long black dresses/cover ups and black hijabs) strolling past the playground she screamed and pointed:
"Mo0000mmmmmmmmmy! Look at the princesses!!!!!!!!!!!!!!"
I guess there's still some hope for her afterall.
i love this!
ReplyDeleteit was SO great to see you all :)
I love that she thought that!!!! She is so adorable.
ReplyDeleteI am so happy to hear that my daughter is not the only one. Marley puts a scarf over her head, to imitate having long hair, a tiara on top of the scarf, combined with the perfect skirt and some plastic jewelry and maybe some chapstick - - or else she "won't be a princess and won't be pretty and won't be married." It actually makes me sad, and I keep telling her that her beauty is within and that a skirt doesn't make her beautiful to which she retorts "yes it does! all princess wear skirts!" I guess she's right... don't think there are any pants-wearing Disney princesses out there.
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